Women's Hassinate Women
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Incident that happen to me,i came to know,learn much from those women's.I have a my own experience and way to deal with everything,everyone have . It was my habit that if anyone is good to me, I will b good to that person, if not um not going to do good too. But I'm always well prepared for every trial of Allah SWT.
I never care for my reputation and respect, I expect respect from Allah not from people, I can't please everyone. People haven't ability to give me profit or loss, and islam teaches me how to react, either um angry bird....
How it feels when something has been putting on ur shoulder wt u have not done or how u feel the punishment of that mistake which u have not done.
Allah SWT. Tested with some people.
People may call me imature Or rude, I cried in front of Allāh i always gave myself hope that he has the power to make everything ryt.It was my character they hassinated my character. Let the street boys aside, who knocked me down; were also women's. Is this a way to treat an innocent person, toture her not being hypocrite or less talkative. They continued to slander and taunt me until they were clearly displeased. Tell them if I ever had judged someone wrong . Extremely valuable lesson for us all. It points to our fickle minded nature and we are too quick to judge other people. Wisdom is in equanimity.
It takes courage to open up and speak about the struggles that one goes through. That internal and mental hurt are understood only by me becz I, go through it.
And the most part is they don't even realize wt damage they have done to me,their mistakes, as its their habit to do. They want to b respected but they don't respect other girls.
I could also speak and spread their flwas in front of people, I also heard so much. Bt that's not my way to make someone understand.They call theirselves mature bt hypocrite n conspiracy is their maturity, I'm sorry dear I couldn't b this. Alot was in my mind bt i choose ,let it be . Wt will make difference then between me n them. Of course I may be a woman of poisonous words, I have a tongue in my mouth, but I will not pollute my tongue with the sins of others. And I wanted women to think more than kitchen and hypocrisy, world is wide, learn more from lyf. Women's can support each other instead of being jealous. Women's can grow together.
I choose the path of Sabr and Tawakkul
My belief is... People should never be afraid of those who strike back.
Rather, be afraid of those people who leave the decision to Allah.
واعلم أن الله سيصلح كل شيء في النهاية وبطريقة لا تتوقعها
And know that Allah will resolve everything in the end, in a way you would never imagine.
So innocent I was, I'm not going to explain anything to anyone, if don't do anything wrong.
You can’t possibly see & correct your own shortcomings if you’re focused on criticizing others. Remember, you’re accountable for all your actions. The Almighty will ask you about what you’ve done, not about what others have done. Save yourself by focusing on yourself.
Patience is very much difficult bt i did ,by reminding prophet's (pbuh) ❤. There is countless nights , in which I shattered, broken. Allhumdulilah. Allhumdulilah, Allah made it easy for me.
I wrote down some of the beautiful verses from Qur’an on these bookmarks which can help a lot in our difficult times. ❤️🩹
لَا تَحْزَنْ إِنَّ اللَّهَ مَعَنَا
“Do not grieve, indeed Allah is with us” (9.40)
أَلَا بِذِكْرِ ٱللَّهِ تَطْمَئِنُّ ٱلْقُلُوبُ
“Verily in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find peace” (13.28)
اِیَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَ اِیَّاكَ نَسْتَعِیْنُ
“You Alone we worship and You Alone we ask for help” (1.5)
لَا تَقْنَطُوا مِن رَّحْمَةِ اللَّهِ
“Do not despair of the mercy of Allah” (39.53)
لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا
“Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear” (2.286)
وَمَنْ يَتَوَكَّلْ عَلَى اللَّهِ فَهُوَ حَسْبُهُ
“And whoever relies upon Allah, then He is sufficient for him” (65.3)
You can't skip chapters, that's not how life works. You have to read every line, meet every character. You won't enjoy all of it. Hell, some chapters will make you cry for weeks. You will read things you don't want to read, you will have moments when you don't want the pages to end. But you have to keep going. Stories keep the world revolving. Live yours, don't miss out.
I'm (loiness) fearless; I'm not afraid of anyone except Allah, and my heart and tongue only speak one language, word, every one knows this very well of me. In their own village, I could tare them up (like dogs). Because of our beloved prophet's sunnat, I was quiet and faced everything with patience, and I believed that Allah was testing me because of every bad situation to see if I reacted with patience or not..
I pray Allah to give them hidayat, for those who wronged to me. They wouldn't deal that kind of situation which I had suffered.
Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only lyt can do dat. Hate can't drive out hate, only love can do dat.
I'm grateful for every single person who was part of my story. The ones that hurt me. The ones that helped me. Because they all taught me.
I forgive because I want to be forgiven by Allah SWT.